Tantric Sex Techniques
In other parts of the world, especially in the west, people frequently see sex as a source of recreation instead of being a means of transformation. The goals are different, where the goal may be to achieve orgasm rather than to pleasure our mate or to connect with them to a fuller extent.
The problem with viewing sex and love making in the way, say experts, is that the entire procedure has a very distinct beginning and ending, with the pinnacle or climax occurring somewhere in between, and having an average life span or duration of 10 to 15 minutes.
When you stop to consider that many women can take upwards of 20 minutes just to reach a state of full arousal, this type of approach to making love can be very and deeply unsatisfying.
By contrast in the Tantric approach to making love, the entire sexual experience is viewed more as a dance with no real beginning or end point. It is for this very different reason, approach and perspective that Tantric gets its fame, allowing the couple to enjoy the present moment of exquisite union.
The advantage of this approach also is that since it does not have a defined beginning or end, it further teaches the couple how to extend the peak of their sexual ecstasy so that both men and women can experience much stronger and deeper orgasms, frequently allowing both to experience several orgasms in a single sexual encounter.
One of the common problems with men is the problem of premature ejaculation, but the leading teachers of Tantric say that men who experience this unpleasant episode can learn the methods to allow them to extend orgasm, and with practice, even to be able to fully enjoy multiple orgasms.
One of the most prominent and well known people who practice and advocate Tantric is the musician Sting, who credits his fulfilling sex life to Tantric, combined with the essential ingredients of love, trust, and mutual respect.
Again, most people need to change their view of sex to fully enjoy the benefits afforded by Tantric. You may wish to work on the following exercises which will help you connect with your body as well as your partner in a new and profound way.
One of the keys is that you need to stop focusing on intercourse as the ultimate goal, but instead focus on simply enjoying the act of giving and receiving pleasure using a gentle touch and loving communications and words.
Communication is a key component. Communicate with your partner to find out what they find to be the most arousing. It may not be what you assume it to be.
In Tantric courses, for students who want to fully engage themselves in this art and become expert in the higher levels of satisfaction and pleasure, they spend weeks practising the Tantric intimacy exercises without necessarily engaging in intercourse.
Many of these students or women (Athens call girl or Athens call girls) who work as professionals, have discovered that experiencing these erotic exercises with no pressure to “go all the way” helps to release sexual guilt, builds a new foundation of trust, and sends a wakeup call to their sex drive!